The truth will set you free. So the Beginning of any Comeback is “The Truth”  and in the first few chats of the Comeback this is what Shane focuses on ,taking you through a journey of no longer lying to yourself about how things really are and facing up to where you want things to be.

Learning to walk again. When we start a Comeback it’s like learning to walk again so we have to take baby steps rather than giant leaps so we can make sure that any falls or hiccups are small and recoverable to guarantee that no matter what we always get back on the horse regardless of a little setback. In this part of a Comeback Shane takes you through a chat that chats with you and planning and making those baby steps.

Do Something. Talking about it is great but once you know the truth the next step is to get up off your chair (Bum) and start doing something about your Comeback, these chats and how to make them work are not goal setting as Shane believes That Comebacks are all about doing soothing you have done before and “reactivating” that memory in yourself to make your Comeback, to make that happen? You have to DO something.

Coping with Critics. For every action there is a reaction and when you make a forward move there are plenty out there that will try and push you back, in the chats that discuss Critics The Comeback shows that you can learn to shut them up and keep moving forward to get back bigger an better than  where you were before.

This is your moment, wow what a feeling when a Comeback is achieved but without work you can slip back down again easy, Comebacks don’t want to be in remission they want to be cured! The final chats of the Comeback deal with making it happen and making it stick.

The Comeback is special and one area that is close to Shanes heart is Comebacks in relationships as that’s what he needed most in his life as do so many people. Comebacks for relationships that have had something bad introduced are not marriage guidance sessions, as something’s are not meant to be but if they have kids involved? We got to make sure at least the relationship is right, so  they are Truth chats, chats that focus on dealing with breakups and bustups that can Comeback to being civil and co-operative so at least our children don’t need a Comeback from being “Messed” up.

The key to the relationship Comebacks is chats about truth, honesty and reality and the thing these chats are aimed at is to destroy the two biggest problems facing both sides which are?

“The Blame Game” and its brother, “Payback”

The Comeback has a lot of wisdom that has be born form experience, it’s not from a University but from the street and real life and during the chats Shane gives one liners to trigger the kick in the bum we often need to get up and keep going when we sometimes just want to run and hide, here is a few to ponder.

The Truth will set you free so get rid of the DHL in your brain that just told you to avoid the truth, what’s the DHL? The Department of Human Lies!

Focus on your FEDEX that will set you free, what’s your FEDEX? Feelings, Emotions, Desires, Experience no more XCUSES!

Bubble Wrap is great for protecting stuff against damage or accidental breakage, part of your Comeback? Take off your personal Bubble Wrap you won’t break!

Bring out your Dead! It’s time to stop being an emotional ambulance and carry around the injured feelings, kill off all the pain and hurt and bad memories put them in a hearse and bury them!

In case of Emergency put the Oxygen mask on you first! Stop helping others breathe, your Comeback needs you, so look after yourself first then you can help everybody else.